Life Lessons from a Kimono
How could a piece of clothing, a kimono, guide you in life? When I first came to Japan, my perception of kimonos was a bit superficial. I admired their beauty but didn’t know the passionate intention that went into creating a kimono. Once I started using them in my artwork, I discovered a deep essence, and discovered lessons that are woven, stitched and designed into the fabric…
Life Lesson #1: Craft a Purposeful Life
While the kimono might appear to be a mere piece of clothing, its humble meaning – "thing to wear" – doesn’t imply its profound purpose. Each fabric, color, and design is meticulously chosen, resonating with the wearer's life stage, the shifting seasons, and significant occasions. As I deconstructed these garments, I was amazed at the precision of their make: designed to be fully repurposed, ensuring a cycle of life without waste. Every fabric rectangle remains intact, emphasizing the virtue of intentional living. In an era of impulsive, disposable fashion, the kimono speaks of foresight, of cherishing resources, and of nurturing purpose over time. Once a kimono was no longer useful, the idea was that the fabric could become something else: floor cushions, a bag, childrens’ clothing, and so much more. This is a reminder to shape our life intentionally, much like the process that shapes making a kimono.
Putting it into practice:
Image is a close-up of my artwork using various kimono fabric plus my handprinted fabrics.
Life Lesson #2: Revel in Nature’s Beauty
Close your eyes and picture your sanctuary in nature. The bliss and beauty of nature is found in the design of a kimono. Anchored in nature, these garments capture its vibrant palette and textures. Be it the fleeting allure of the sakura (Japanese cherry blossom) or the enduring charm of the crane, the kimono highlights nature's rhythms and beauty. In Japan, culture and nature are intertwined, and this symbiosis breathes life into the very fabric of kimonos. We're swamped in a modern world cluttered with needless possessions. Last year, I went through the Marie Kondo process and it was truly life changing, as the book title says. Instead of giving into an impulse buy, I try to find satisfaction in truly loving the things I already have, which means if I do buy something, I want to keep it for a long time…I want it to last. Seek beauty by curating what’s in your life and enjoy the experiences around us, specifically nature. Surrounding ourselves in beauty is not vain, it’s natural! In fact, it is a fundamental need for our souls.
Putting in into practice:
Take 15 minutes to look at a plant and draw it. This type of observation is calming and allows you to really see nature when you slow down to capture it.
Life Lesson #3: Honor Your Integrity
The kimono is not just clothing; it's a narrative, recounting tales of dedication, precision, and heritage. Every weave and stitch embeds a story of meticulous craftsmanship. The kimono reminds us of the essence of integrity. In the hustle of life, it's all too easy to lose our compass, forgetting our core values. Yet, the kimono stands resolute, a beacon of steadfastness. Just as each stitch is crafted with intent and dedication, we too can stitch our life's tapestry with a commitment to our values. Authenticity is a craft, a commitment to practicing our inner truths each day.
Putting it into practice:
Write down your core values. Are they lining up with your daily actions?
In a world of fleeting trends, the kimono, is more than a garment—it's a philosophy. It can offer valuable reminders for a world grappling with sustainability, effects of consumerism, and cultural identity, the kimono emerges as a timeless reminder of life's profound lessons.